Winning over the group makes you seem like the life of the party, while ignoring your target makes her more eager for your attention. Instead, make her friends like you-especially anyone who would be likely to try to interfere with your pickup attempt (such as male friends). Approach the group confidently and start conversation with a scripted pickup line, such as, “It looks like the party’s over here” or “Did you see those two girls fighting outside?” The lines are simple they’re just meant to get people talking.If you wait longer, you risk either overthinking it or staring at her too long and looking like a creep. Follow the three-second rule: When you see a woman you’re interested in, approach her within three seconds.Don’t pick up women who are standing alone. Select a target (a woman you want to seduce) in a group.A smile indicates that you’re confident, fun, and, above all, an alpha male. His strategy-which he dubbed the Mystery Method-broke down into these steps: Mystery developed techniques that incorporated magic with the lessons he’d learned. Over 10 years, Mystery pieced together the principles of social interaction and the patterns of male-female dynamics. He studied women and their reactions when he tried to hit on them. Mystery didn’t know that the seduction community existed, so he conducted his own research. He spent his teenage years honing his craft, but, when he turned 21 and was still a virgin, he realized that his obsessive focus on magic had kept him from meeting women. Mystery in The Game: The Mystery Methodįrom an early age, Mystery in The Game had wanted to be a famous magician. Mystery in The Game is one of the top PUAs, and his methods influence Strauss and his lifestyle.

Mystery in The Game is one of the pickup artists Neil Strauss follows and writes about in his book chronicling his time in the pickup artist community. Who is Mystery in The Game? What is his PUA method and what is his relationship with Neil Strauss, aka Style? Like this article? Sign up for a free trial here. Shortform has the world's best summaries of books you should be reading. This article is an excerpt from the Shortform summary of 'The Game' by Neil Strauss.

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